Life without friends

At times it makes me wonder, how our lives would have been without friends. Just close your eyes and think over the topic for a while… Life would have been so boring that one can never imagine! Life without friends is like – conversation without a language – a story without any character – Music without lyrics – an empty field without rain… in short it is like, something missing - incomplete. Depth of closeness and understanding decides the level of friendship that you are having with your friend. In my opinion, everyone should have at least one good/best friend. It is quiet essential.

In life we come across different relations – parents, brothers & sisters, aunts & uncles, so called ‘love’ or even wife/husband etc. Still, we find it difficult at times to share our feelings easily with any of them. That is when you are in need of a friend. Its quiet strange, that we find it difficult to discuss some personal matters with people who actually brought us to this world! But with a friend who was a stranger once, it’s not so difficult, isn’t it?

Why? Well, I don’t have a definitive answer for this. May be that is why god created FRIENDS!

However, it is not that easy to get them. You see, all the costliest materials in this world are rarely found. And so it is with friends. Different people have different way of living, different tastes, different mind sets and that makes every person unique in their own ways. That doesn’t mean two people having different mind sets cannot become friends. It depends. Any person can be your friend quiet easily. But “good” friend…? “Best friend”…? Wait a second… not so easy right. Surely, it takes time. But when you get someone like I mentioned, your life changes. Everything seems to be so beautiful when your best friend is around. Everything seems to be so nice that you wish to be together all the time. Some people think only ‘Love’ can make you feel this way… Trust me; true friends can also bring happiness in your life. In fact more than what the so called ‘Love’ can offer. It’s just that you need to have a “True friend” and some “Time” to spend. :)

Let me just give you an example of how life is ‘with’ friends, three best friends going for a long drive on an air conditioned wheels with loud music, discussing different topics throughout the journey with loads of fun and laughter… finally sitting in a lonely place far from the busy life… Just you, your friends and the nature…. Nice na… :)

Life is worth living when your true friends are around… Make the most of it.