Through the eyes of Sunil

She knows me like no one else does… who can read my mind just through her eyes ! Although we didn’t share the same womb, our hearts , not less than Siamese-twins I assume! Coz what she feels deep inside, gets mirrored in my heart & my face outside! Yes, distance merely part us from seeing each other, but my love towards you - just gets richer! She is my best friend like no one else, at times, treats me like not less than a mother! This day is just a reminder for those who forget, I don’t need one, coz in my life - you are preset… I don’t need to say this again my dear sis , just to let you know you see, I will be there for you... “ ALWAYS ” P.S: Yet another attempt to write a poem. This time dedicated to all my sisters :) Happy Raksha Bandhan.. With loads of love &

I must say, those days I was having crush on every other girl I met... The one who had lots of follower, the one who was sitting alone in the cafe, the one who was tomboyish and always surrounded by the guys,   one who was a typical gossip maker, one who always kept silent, one with those magical eyes, one with those wonderful smile, the one who was considered to be the bomb of our college, one who was different from others, simple yet elegant… sigh …   I loved college life! For a guy, who had his first affair in the 6 th standard, who proudly possesses that art of flirting, this place was like heaven. I don’t blame those guys like the author of this blog, for being dumb that they couldn’t even have a conversation with a girl! After all it was an art! All my friends used to call me the love guru – you see I made a girl fall in love with my friend just through messages, acting like him! I was that good!! So, for a guy like me – crush & love were all the same, and it was f...

* although it is presented in such a way to look/sound like a poem - I know I have a long way to go. So I would say, it is still an attempt * And this is a work of fiction. New place to work, new people around.. but I was confident that I shall manage to stand my ground.. With so many dreams and aspiration, I was also searching for that special one… Soon, I found someone in the crowd.. her smile made my heart pound.. my eyes started following her, everywhere she made a move… Luckily, she was in my team.. & that made my face beam.. I couldn’t hide my delight, but had to wait for the moment that will be right… My days passed waiting for her glimpse.. & her thoughts took over the nights.. every time I heard her beautiful voice, her words played soothing music in my heart… Our conversation were always small.. for her, I was still not even a close pal.. Yes I had a crush on her.. and a feeling, to make her mine for rest of the future… That day I pinged her.. with plans of asking...

It has been over a months since my last b'day and I'm surprised that I haven't written about it in my blog! Not that it was not worth mentioning... in fact - it has to be the best b'day ever...  Who wouldn't love to be treated as special on his/her b'day?  but that's not it... - How would you feel when you are surprised - not once, not twice but thrice?   - How would you feel, when you wake up in the morning to find most of your close friends in your house, who  sacrificed their Saturday morning sleep and came to make the special day even more special?  - How would you feel, when you find your favorite football club's (should I mention which club?) crest - being decorated on your b'day cake?  - How would you feel, when you go to a restaurant - which serves food that belongs to your region, knows your taste and serves what you have been longing for... especially in a place where you hardly find any such restaurants?   Well, that it exactl...

This may not be true in the case of every married girl. Just that I came across the topic some days back and few questions that I couldn’t answer and so I am writing about the same. This is not a feminist post. This is for all those married men who come across the same situation. And, last but not the least – this is not based on my/my wife’s  situation completely! A gal who is born and brought up by her parents in a house which becomes her home eventually. She is sent to her husband’s house after the marriage to live with him & his family. In the new house, the girl & in-laws thinking doesn't match. Both of them are completely different from each other, when it comes to character, likes & dislikes. Now, if at all the guy gets an opportunity to work somewhere else other than his home town, he moves to that place and starts living with his wife. But the guy is keen to live with his family that comprises of both his parent’s & wife, and he never finds the ne...

Most often we conclude on certain things that may or may not be right. Chances of such conclusions going wrong is very high especially when they are taken too early or when it was taken without knowing the person or complete matter. Perceptions also go hand in hand and they are highly driven by the views or opinions that we see or hear from others. In most of our case it is something like this: You come across a situation/person >>  you see/hear/read things about it from others >> you add your perceptions based on what you are told >> You conclude What is better approach? You come across a situation/person   >>    you see/hear/read things about it from others >> ANALYZE what you have gathered + THINK about it in different angles >> Then you are in a better position to come into a conclusion and it will be better than the first case. This is however still better than those who create their own stories! I don’t know how do th...

They say - it’s better late than never. So even though we celebrated our one year of ‘official’ togetherness few weeks back (on Apr 25 th ) I have finally decided to pen down something about the most anticipated topic :P It is really amazing how time flies by. I still remember the time when I entered that wedding hall in the morning, a bit nervous yet trying my best not to showcase the same on my face. For a guy who is in his early 25 entering the new phase of life is considered to be a bit early. I mean this is the time when you are gradually settling into life. To be honest, I didn’t have a huge bank balance, had joined a new company just a month ago that too in a new city. Yet, I was ready to take the responsibility of a lifetime! But you know what they say – when it is right, it is right J And today I am glad that I have err... or shall I say WE have successfully completed the first year which can be sometimes trivial. And now I can say - we are quite confident enough of rowing th...

Hello my lovely readers! Let me introduce you to my dream girl today. Alas! You may be wondering what the heck I am talking about! If your mind is too fast (or if you watch too many daily soaps -or- your mind is one of the kinds of Ekta Kapoor) then it may even have started a thread titled “Sunil’s extra marital affairs!?” Well, then you better stop. There isn’t anything of that sort. (Even if there was I am not that stupid to post it here ;) :P … hey wifey – doesn’t mean I have one or will have in future! You know I was just kidding :P) Anyway, I am talking about this character who reside in our (I can generalize this as it is the same in most of the guys) minds, exist only in our imagination – whose name often changes as we come across different girls (the real ones) , and even have multiple faces, again extracted from faces that our in-built scanner (eyes!) capture – during  those tender age of 14 to XX (now both these values vary person by person :P) So, I have decided to gi...

So, I have finally decided to put this on my blog. I am sure, this post is going to be a long one. :) Every person in this world at some stage in his/her teenage would have had a crush. Some admit, some don’t. Some even go to an extent of letting the other person know. Bottom line is, every person would have had at-least one (or in some cases like mine – more) ‘crush’ on opposite sex. It can be of different levels. Ranging from ‘nothing-but-attraction’ to ‘utter madness’! Yeah, you got it right? I am not going to use the real names here with due respect to their identity. Although, that will not affect me or them in any way, as I am not in contact with most of them. Anyway – let me keep that part a secret! And, I am also not going to list out the celebrities or film actors here… image courtesy by http://www.etsy.com/  #1 – I was in 9 th Standard. There was a girl in our class who was pretty. It is not that she was the beauty queen or something. But there was something unique, som...